expectations. We all hate expectations. But we chose to live up to them because we want to feel that sense of achievement when we meet those expectations... But i think Expectations are good, expectations helps up grow and improve. It's sort of like having outside help in helping ourselves improve.

It's like how it's impossible to teach oneself music theory, we likewise also need to have people to be watching out for us and setting an expectation so that we mature.

The only thing we do have to be careful about is whose expectations we should meet. In essence it should only be God's expectation of excellence from us. but then one might ask, how do we know God's expectation? well, i choose to believe it would be the godly people around me, for example in my life these expectations set of me by Fuji or Ruth are the expectations i would take seriously but if it was a ridiculous expectation by a friend then i do not have to put myself under pressure and live up to their expectations:)

Recently been thinking about a lot of things, must remember to keep God first. Easier said then done..